I recently had a long conversation with an old friend, asking my thoughts on something going on in their life.
Friend has noticed that spouse is frequently texting, at all hours of the day and night. Friend gets the phone bill and sees spouse is sending and receiving hundreds, even thousands of texts per month with one person. Notices spouse is responding to this person's texts while at work, but not responding to Friend's messages during the same time period. Spouse is also super protective of their phone, always grabbing it and putting it out of Friend's reach when they come near, even though Friend is not attempting to touch the phone.
Now to add to this, Friend drives spouse's vehicle and goes to use the GPS. Finds unknown address in GPS. Searches for address and finds it belongs to the person spouse is doing all the texting with.
What are your thoughts and how would you handle?
They either accept that their spouse is cheating or planning on it or cut them loose. Discussion will do nothing but delay the inevitable.
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